It’s Okay To Ask

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” – Philippians 2:3 NIV

Value others above yourselves is a tough act to do or practice. Of course, as humans, it is our nature to protect, care for, and think of ourselves first before others.

As a nurse, I always keep in mind the word “humility.” With all the chaos, stress milieu, and working with colleagues from multicultural and educational backgrounds, there will be no question that competition among others exists. Competing to be seen as knowledgeable and skillful, and that their race or country is the best. Consequently, there will be no teamwork among others. The care given to the patients will be affected and they will not be able to receive the quality care that they deserve.

For instance, a simple act of asking questions or clarifications when you are in doubt. Some people may find this act hard. Why? It is because of the pride that others might

see them less as a person, or they might be judged, or that they are not knowledgeable enough.

For me, this is a simple scenario, but some healthcare workers fail to do it. I always remember what my clinical instructor told us, “If you’re in doubt, ask.” This is what she called “intellectual humility.” This act cannot make you less but instead makes you a better and more honest nurse, who can prevent harm to your patient.

This verse reminds me how Jesus, as perfect as He is, humbled Himself for our sake, for us to be saved. Jesus set an example of the true meaning of humility. How He valued humility above Himself. It is a difficult task to practice but with Jesus in our hearts, this is not impossible. We have Him through the Holy Spirit who will give us the strength and wisdom to overcome our prideful being.

Prayer: Thank You, Jesus, for showing me what true humility is. Because of Your unconditional love for me, I am saved. Give me the strength to change pride to humility in every situation I may have and to every person that I may encounter and handle. Amen!

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